Last night I realized that I'm prone to self-absorption. Since I've been engaged, the only thing I've thought about is me and my wedding-- I have the makings for the perfect bridezilla here. My poor friends (including my fiance) can't get a word in edgewise when I open my mouth; my thoughts are so consumed with colors and flowers and the registry that I can't concentrate on work; and last night I had a dream about navigating through theknot.com website. It's time for an intervention and some serious balance!
So, I've decided that Thursday's and Sunday's will be wedding-free days until crunch time. That means no blogging, no looking at wedding websites, no talking about wedding plans unless asked, and as much as I can, no thinking about wedding preparations on these designated days. Hopefully this will help me enjoy the process, get some rest, and make me a more pleasant being to co-exist with. :)
you'll only be bridezilla if you start biting heads off for having mismatched ribbon :o)
ReplyDeleteif you want to gush about it all without judgement, i can lend an ear....it's your big day and since we've been little girls that's been the main daydream, so i get it. have fun, take a deep breath, and enjoy the planning times no matter how ensconced you get in it because it will come and go very fast.
:) Thanks Stef!! I'll be sure to take you up on that! You're gunna be the best sister-in-law! I'm so excited!!!
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